Why are we always jumping right back into the very things that we have vowed to escape. Is it true that opposites attract... Well you see this very thing in nature. The positive end if a magnet is repelled by another positive end but holds firmly to the negative end. Well it seems as if this is repeated all throughout nature. We want more of that which is bad for us. And with this we continue to get hurt.
Here are my thoughts... Communication is so underrated yet so obliviously the cure to most issues, Although you can never really change someone you can always shape a relationship. You can communicate the things that you enjoy to someone that may not display those exact qualities and you can always lovingly coach them into the very thing that you enjoy.
No You will never find a perfect person but if you find someone you love that loves and treats you right the rest is easy to accomplish. You never take a new job knowing exactly what to do, It is a learning process. Learn your lover. And remember it's give and take, Love is about compromise and the willingness to do what it takes to make someone happy. Don't allow yourself to miss out on the best love you ever had because any easily corrected deficiencies. And don't fall into that love powered by the want to make someone "who is unworthy of you" love you back.. Namely "The Opposite"...
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